How To Turn A Frigid, Unresponsive Woman Into Your Sex Slave
Special Report By David Van Arrick, developer of Secret Orgasm Tips
This is a special report for students of John Alexander's How To Be Her Best Lover Ever
One of the most gratifying parts of the work
that I do is helping people to overcome
obstacles that they may face in their sexual
I do this kind of work on a number of levels.
As a hypnotist, a practitioner of Oriental
Medicine, as a sex coach and ultimately as a
giver of information and dispelling many of
the myths and erroneous concepts that keep us
sexually in the stone ages...
(now don't get me wrong some people are really
turned on by being dragged around by their
hair... but that another topic completely.)
Man or woman, all of us can benefit from
having an expanded understanding of our
sexuality and just how much joy, excitement,
pleasure, and fulfillment is possible when
you apply the secrets I am teaching you.
Today's question is: Are there women totally incapable of orgasming?
To this question I have to qualify my answer.
If she is a healthy biologically sound woman
with all her parts intact, then no! I believe every woman is more than capable of orgasm.
Now, depending on her experiences growing up,
her past sexual history etc. there could be
some barriers to orgasm that may be in place.
I will share one such experience that ultimately
resulted in my beautiful paramour having the most
orgasmic experiences of her life, whereas prior
to our getting together she could never orgasm
with a partner before.
(I know, I'm THAT darn good. =)
I met this young woman through the INTERNET. We
exchanged pics and emails and finally met in
It didn't take long for us to escalate our
relationship to the bedroom.
I noticed that she really, really loved sex, but
when she got close to orgasm she would pull back
It took me a while to gain her trust about this
but she finally confided to me that she had been
molested when she was young and after that she
was never able to allow herself to have an orgasm
with a male partner.
Well at that point, being the compassionate soul
that I am, I made it my mission to free her from
her non-orgasmic prison.
It took a couple weeks, but finally one night I
looked her in the eyes and told her I wanted to
give her an orgasm.
She looked uncertain but my foreplay skills are
rather formidable, and her G-spot was primed for
(How to do this is explained in detail in my book Ten Keys to Maximum Sexual Arousal!)
After I had gotten her aroused to the necessary
level using the "Ten Keys," I began using my
special technique for creating the one orgasm
women can not fake.
I knew it would take a while without using the
rule of three, but I wanted to be sure she
wouldn't be holding herself back and then lie
to me about having an orgasm.
Women faking orgasms is a huge problem for us
men, and most women fail to recognize that faking
an orgasm only serves to perpetuate the less
than adequate sexual skills of their male lovers.
But because women are so bent on not hurting their
man's feelings, they fake orgasms, thus giving men
the wrong kind of feedback...
In other words, men think what they are doing is
working when it really isn't, and because they
think its working, they keep doing it...
It's a vicious cycle that... oops! I am off topic
Back to the topic at hand...
Fifteen minutes after I began using my special
techniques, Elsie suddenly finds herself on my
bed wriggling in full-blown ecstasy as her body
is being rocked by one ultra powerful orgasmic
shockwave after another.
By the time it was over (or at least mostly over)
all she could do was lay there in a fetal position
soaking in a huge puddle of her own female ejaculate
totally and completely swept away and overwhelmed
by the tsunami-like force of her own orgasm!
Now, in Elsie's case, it took some time for me to
dissolve her sexual barriers and gain her trust
to the point where I could bring her to orgasm
and she would allow herself to be brought to
Most women that you meet will not have such hard
core issues, although they may have many
pre-conceived notions, myths and misconceptions
about what is possible for them based on the
experiences they have had with other lovers and
the books they have read.
The single biggest key for helping your woman
achieve orgasm is mastering the art of sexual
Master this one area of sexual expertise and
women will beat a path to your door!
Are there any age limits to women achieving an
In my experience, there is no upper age limit for
a woman to experience an orgasm.
My personal belief is that women in their 80's
and 90's would still love to have good orgasms
and the more, the merrier.
For all I know, they may still enjoy them through
masturbation or from their husbands or significant
others. The onset of menopause only signifies the
end of childbearing years, not the end of a woman's
ability to be sexually responsive or experience
and enjoy orgasm.
In fact, I have gotten letters from folks in their
eighties thanking me for sharing my techniques
and how by using them they have significantly
improved their sex life after 50 years of marriage.
The simple truth is unless your heart won't take
the pressure (check with your doctors) there simply
is no age at which a healthy human being can not
have and enjoy an orgasm.
You're never too old to enjoy sex and you're never
too old to begin to sharpen and improve the sexual
skills that will give you countless hours of pleasure
and full and complete control of your sexual destiny.
All you have to do is choose to do the work I teach
in my course Secret Orgasm Tips (which is free for students of John Alexander's How To Be Her Best Lover Ever).
If you don't have this course yet, you can download
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